Wedding Vow Template

While traditional wedding vows are usually very structured, you don’t have to be quite as strict while writing your own. This outline is a great place to help you get started.

Say "I love you"

This seems like a no-brainer, but you would be surprised at how many couples leave those three little words out of their vows.

Tell your partner you'll be there through thick and thin

Most wedding vows touch on sticking around through good times and bad. The reality is all marriages have cycles of peaks and valleys, It's nice to communicate your intent to get through those valleys together.

Share personal stories

It's so much more interesting for friends or family to hear about your odd quirks and raw personal moments. Guests (and your partner) want to hear vows that are real. If you've been through bumpy spots, you should express that.

Actually make promises

Vows aren't just cute anecdotes—they are a promise and serious commitment that you’re making in front of a whole lot of witnesses. That doesn’t mean they have to be heavy though. You can vow to not only stick by their side forever but to also be the one to kill spiders whenever they creep their way into your home.

Acknowledge the support you'll need from others

You've gathered your friends and family to celebrate your wedding, but you'll need them just as much during your marriage. It is recommended that you acknowledge the role of family and friends who will help support you when times get tough.